Looking for advice on training my girlfriend. At the moment, I'm not ready to have her out with others yet... but eventually I will.
This is what I'd like to have her eventually do... sex with strangers, gangbangs, bukkake, creampies... I would like this to be all be bareback only.
Would like to see her constantly dressed slutty.. and constantly (or as often as realistically possibly) be covered in cum (in as much as possible) and have lots of cum dripping out of her holes.
I also want her to learn to deepthroat.
She has a secret fetish of being a bad girl... wants to dress very bad out in public. She has had very little experience in sex, practically none prior to meeting me.
She is aware of my fantasies of sharing her with others, having her dress like a slut... gangbangs, etc... I'd like her to become a hot slut.
She is accepting of the situation, but is unsure of how she might like it... the thoughts do not excite her too much - yet. Though, she does find them to be interesting. She's accepting of the idea because it she knows it makes me happy.
I think the best way for you to realize these fantasies is to become a porn actor. You say she's accepting of the idea but not sure if she'd like it. Well. of course. And you have all these things you want her to do and learn. What in the meantime are you doing for her? Or is acting on all your fantasies all that she needs?
Here's what I'd suggest: roleplay. I know it takes some imagination to act out a gangbang with just you, but give it a try. Before you go all bukkake on her, see how she likes getting just your squirt on her face. Nothing wrong with her learning to deep throat...if it appeals to her. And if she really likes the idea of dressing slutty in public, there's nothing stopping her, it's totally safe (as long as she's with you), and might lead to her developing some fantasies of her own.
I'm generally open to the idea of anything any consenting adults wish to do. What's pissing me off about your letter is:
1. You appear to have a controlling personality and are looking to figure out just the right way to talk your girl into doing things she probably doesn't really want to do. Even a dom/sub relationship has to be rooted in equality to work.
2. More seriously, you want her to have totally unsafe sex with strangers. This is unacceptable.