Sunday, December 23, 2007

How to Please an Older Woman


Hi Aspasia, Smack and Al,

I am a 23 year old male and would like to know a few things:

1, What is the best way to please an older female (40ish)?

Best way to lengthen female pleasure for any age is to take your time. Do it slow. It's not all about penetration. Touch. Kiss. Massage. Flowers. Chocolate. Wine and dine your lady. She'll love you for it.

2, What is the best way to lengthen pleasure to a female?

see above answer.

3 Is pleasing a BBW different from pleasing a skinny woman?

No sugar. We all have a vagina, lips, soft skin, boobs and bits in between and no matter what size a woman's body, we're still suspectible to touch and smooching. I wonder if you think fat men react any differently to skinny men? No. They don't. Most men like touching and sex - full stop - same goes with women. Take your time with any woman and she'll make it worth your while - hopefully. BBW may not be as agile as a skinny girl. This means you might not be able to throw her over your shoulder and carry her to the bedroom for an act of ravishing, but apart from that, BBW are the same as our slender sisters. Most women all looking for loyal, kind men to love us.

4, How can a man who has a "skinny" body be able to please a BBW (in many ways)?

Kiss her softly. Massage her skin. Brush her hair. Cook her a nice meal. Take out for a nice meal. Buy her flowers. Buy her a gift. Spoil her like a queen. If she's a decent woman, she will not judge you on being a 'skinny body', if you treat her right.

5, What should I look out for when with a BBW?

I'm a tad confused by this question mate. Look out for? Nothing. Unless of course, she's married then look out for her husband! Treat her nicely, with respect. Ask her questions about herself. Pay attention. You gotta act like she's the reason you're living!

Thank you for your time and i hope to hear from you soon and will ask for your advice again if any other questions come up.

I hope it helps....do leave us a comment on how you go, stud!

Lots of love
Smack

7 comments:

Madam Z said...

Good advice, Ms. Smack, but I would put a bit more emphasis on the physical aspect of pleasing his woman. Namely...he should learn the location of her clitoris and work on the nuances of manipulation. All the stuff you mentioned is great for the "lead-up," but for the "big bang" there's nothing like the proper lick, nibble, and suck to send that "older female" into orbit.

Ms Smack said...

Madam Z i love that you come here and help us deliver realistic advice to our readers!

Please keep coming back. I love your advice!

Melissa said...

All women - no matter the size - love attention and to be praised. Tell her how beautiful she is to you. Comment on her perfume or how soft her skin or hair is. Don't avoide part of her. I'm not saying lick her stump leg (unless you dig that) but don't let her feel self conscious about it either. Thin, tall, short, fat, whatever our physical characteristics we all have something we don't like. Doing that will make her comfortable and more open to you physically.

Once that happens explore her body and kiss her. Touching is an amazing thing and will put her at ease and turn her on. The touching thing also lets you see which parts of her body are more sexually responsive than others.

Everything Ms. Smack said is gold, same for Madam Z. Now add all this together, throw in a pinch of listening when she speaks and you're all set.

Oh, and when I said touch and explore her - I means ALL of her - toes, tongue and twat. (In any order you see fit.)

Ms Smack said...

Melissa -THANKYOU THANKYOU THANKYOU!

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Anonymous said...

way late to this party....

Great and sexy insight :))))))))

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