Dear Al,
I have been dating a wonderful woman for about a year and a half. Our sex life I would say is quite good. In fact, better than good. She is uninhibited and open-minded.
I believe that may be part of my quandary.
She will never allow me in her bedroom, stating that it is always a mess and she is embarrassed for me to see it.
She recently went on a boy scout hike in the mountains. After the boys had already left that morning, she drove up that evening with a girlfriend because she stated that they both had to work that day and they couldn't leave as early as the intended departure. She also added that if they got tired from the long days work and long drive they would stop at a motel for the night and join the scouts in the morning.
In packing for the trip, she openly packed some provocative, yet tasteful panties, stating to me that the other ladies at the campsite can see that she too has some nice things besides a used car and a house full of beat up furniture.
Am I being a bit paranoid (I went through a nasty divorce, where my then wife vehemently denied her cheating; even at the very end, when I had hours of 16 mm. celluloid that proved otherwise). Or is my present lady bisexual and would prefer not to be blatant about it, but doesn't particularly care what I think?
Thank you,
Curious..................
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Dear Curious,
It's funny how many people write, wondering how they can know something about their S.O.s Here's a clue: ASK THEM.
Anyhow, I think you're asking the wrong question. The right question is, "Is my girlfriend cheating on me?"
Would it make a difference to you whether she's having sex with other women or with other men?
If it wouldn't, then whether she's bi is not the issue. As you say, you've been a victim of cheating and you're concerned about being in that place again.
Or would it be OK if she were bi and you're just hoping to turn it into a M-F-M threesome (there we go again!) ?
Last option is that it would be OK with you if she were bi and having sex with women, but you'd just like to know and have it be an honest relationship.
Decide which it is and that will guide your actions.
Al
P.S. - She may really have a messy bedroom. Are you thinking that if you saw it there would be evidence of her bisexuality? I guess if she had a rack of strap-ons...
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Does she have any friends?
Oh Mutley !
Back to the problem. What ever your concern try to keep jealousy at bay - it is not cool or attractive and will make any problems ten times worse.
Al, you are so funny! That's great advice, very direct. I love the direct approach, too.
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